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What are the best anal sex toys for beginners?

Beginners should start with prostate massagers or butt plugs. Anal beads are also a good option, if you go for the soft, flexible silicone kind.

Overall, go for a thin-shaped and bendable anal sex toy for easy insertion. The Lora DiCarlo Sway and the OxBalls Pug Puppy Tail are good beginner-friendly options. Among anal beads, the Blush Luxe is the best. 

How should you prepare for using anal sex toys?

Before using anal sex toys, wash your anus with warm water in the shower, but don’t use soap. You can also consider using a douche like the Calexotics Ultimate or an enema kit like the Aneros Prelude. 

As for the lube, go for silicone lube as it’s more sticky and slippery if you aren’t using a silicone toy. Oil-based lube is also a good option if you are using a silicone toy.

What are the benefits of using anal sex toys?

For people with a penis, prostate stimulation can lead to some earth-shattering orgasms. For vulva owners, you can use it to stimulate the G-spot and the anus at the same time.

How do you choose the right size of an anal sex toy?

For anal sex toys, you have to focus on the width rather than the length. 

An anal toy with a diameter of 1 to 1.25 inches is perfect for beginners. Experienced users can opt for 1.3 to 1.5 inches in diameter. And the daring ones can go for 1.6 to 2 inches.

What safety tips should one follow when using anal sex toys?

You should have three things in mind when selecting anal sex toys:

  • Material: Go for silicone, metal, glass, and hard plastic as these are non-porous and easy to sanitize, lowering the chance of STIs. 
  • Shape: Stay away from anal toys with sharp edges. Go for the blunt or rounded ones to avoid chafing. 
  • Safety Guard: Toys like butt plugs and prostate massagers should have a flared base so it doesn’t get lost in your rectum.

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