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What is the P-Spot?

March 11, 2022 6 min read

An up-to-date overview on what the P-spot is and how you can locate it

The P-spot, also synonymously known as the “male G-spot”, is basically the prostate gland. There. That’s it. It’s highly likely that you could’ve deduced that from the name “P-spot”; the “P” in P-spot stands for prostate.

Unlike the G-spot and its highly debatable nature, the P-spot is something verified scientifically to exist as part of the male sex organ and is also known to produce exhilarating and extremely powerful orgasm when some pressure is put on it.

Where Is It?

The P-spot or the prostate gland is located 2-3 inches inside of you butt and positioned forward toward the penis. It feels dense, and is around the size of a walnut.

Its main responsibility in the body and as part of the male sexual reproductive system is to produce a special type of liquid known as the seminal fluid. In return, the seminal fluid is in charge of supplying sufficient nutrients to the sperm cell and also transporting them.

How Can I Find It?

First off, it is important to establish while that as the P-spot is located within the body, there are two main ways which you can use to locate and find it: externally or internally.


If you decide to find it externally, it is usually located by the perineum area; the perineum area is a part of the body that stretches from your scrotum to your anus.

To help your partner experience pleasure using the P-spot externally, simply place your hand over the perineum area and slowly massage it. Depending on how they react, you can either choose to speed up or slow down even more. Always keep in mind that everyone may react to the stimulation of the P-spot differently. 

This external method of stimulating the P-spot is also highly recommended for anyone or any couple that is just beginning to experiment with the P-spot. This is largely due to it being less penetrative and simple to perform. Some individuals are also uncomfortable with any anal-related play although while some people might have a sexual stigma with penetrative anal play. External stimulation is the first step in realizing how amazing prostate massage can feel.

We recommend to use a wand or toy such as the Vibratex The Original Magic Wand Plus to really send vibrations deep into your partners core. Just having the sensation of stimulation will make the next step of internal massage more of a easy segway. 


To locate it internally, it can be reached via the anus. Its approximate location within the anus is about two inches deep and forward towards the penis. 

This is a great way to intensify the orgasm an individual may experience as reaching the P-spot internally is a much more intimate and erotic method of doing so, as opposed to reaching it externally. However, to reach the P-spot internally, there are some materials that are required and recommended in order to achieve the best result:

As you are reaching into the anus with either your finger(s) or sex toys, there are a few things to keep in mind. First off, you need to be prepared and ready to fully be able to enjoy this type of stimulation. Pay attention to your bodies cycles, food you eat, the last time you went to the washroom, and if you so choose, douching will make the experience easy and enjoyable. You can focus on the pleasure rather then worry about accidents.  

Lube is a huge factor in anything to do with anal play. A good thick lube that doesn't dry or drip will keep it where you need it. I personally recommend silicone lubes if you are using your fingers, but if toys are going to be involved then a hybrid lube will do the trick as well. Over all, look for lubes that are designed for anal play if you are new to this pleasure. You'll soon find out what will be best for the type of stimulation. 

Sex toys are optional, although not a must. Some individuals or couples may find the presence of sex toys more thrilling and exciting, so it may be a mood-booster depending on your preferences regarding sex toys.

Now that you’ve prepared all your materials, follow the steps below:

  1. Go to the washroom and make sure your comfortable with exploring yourself. Take a long bath to warm yourself up and relax. If you choose to douche than use a douching bulb filled with body temp water. Do not use a vaginal douche. Your ass contains healthy flora that is crucial to your sexual health.
  2. Start off by a nice soft massage of the hole. Use lots of lube. Take your time and really focus on pleasing your partner. Rub thier balls, stroke their cock, apply general pressure, to their ass will a balled hand. Get them use to the feeling of a light force pressing on their hole. 
  3. Give words of encouragement, tell them how doo its gonna feel, have them flex their PC muscle and take note on how the hole will contract and relax.
  4. When you have your partner worked up, you'll be able to feel the prostate pulsing on their taint. Start teasing the hole and applying direct force. 
  5. Communication is key, when you are ready to insert, make eye contact and tell them when you are going to insert your finger. There is a small trick, that requires timing and trust. if you are sure that your partner is cleaned out, having them push like they are going to the washroom, as you insert yourself, will be easier for entry. For many first time anal, this is the only way they have trained their body to relax those muscles.
  6. Notice how the hole contracts and opens, you should never force your way in. It should be a smooth and easy sensation. Once you are in, just let it sit there and breath. Start to feel around for the prostate, it will be a hard lump.
  7. As the person receiving the pleasure, you'll feel a sensation of needing to pee. Its unusual at first although thats because the prostate is next to the bladder, the most you feel the pleasure, the mosre intense it can get. The first time since most of the pleasure is new, your brain might not fully understand it. Although once the switch of pleasure is flipped, you'll know. Prostate massage is otherworldly if done correctly. Its a new sensation that builds, you'll be shaking uncontrollably, talking in tongues and after you shoot further then ever before, you'll be coming down wondering why it took so long to explore the amazing world of prostate play.
  8. Messes happen, some things can be done to avoid them but really, if you are playing with the ass then its gonna happen sooner or later. Douching can only do so much, but for beginners, have a towel close by, and just laugh off anything that may occur. Over time once you learn your body and its cycles, you'll have the knowledge to pass this wisdom and pleasure onto others!

Before you begin… 

Just as it is important to perform the stimulation of the P-spot properly, you must also make sure that your partner is comfortable and happy to engage in plays involving their P-spot. A great way to make sure that they are completely into it would be to engage in a conversation. 

During the conversation, always make sure to be as specific as possible in order to make sure that the whole ordeal proceeds smoothly and that both parties know what to expect, what line not to cross, how intense the play should be, etc. 

Once you’re done with the P-spot, it is also important that you ask for your partner’s feedback so that they can guide you on how you can improve and make the entire act more erotic, pleasurable, and gratifying.


That’s everything you would need to know about the P-spot and how you can find it on an individual. Remember that this is a play designed to make sexual activity much more exciting and thus, if any party is uncomfortable, do not hesitate to pull the plug, rather than risk ruining the entire mood.